MIKE GOSLING

How To Apply Emotional Intelligence For Effective Emotional Leadership

Emotional Leader Coach Dr. Mike Gosling

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Emotional Leadership by Dr. Mike & Karen Gosling

Dr. Mike Gosling          

 

Here Are My Very Own Books

For more than 35 years, my wife, Karen Gosling, and I sought out the best mentors available and studied everything we could find on emotional intelligence, behavior, neuropsychology, and the physiology of emotion.

What we learned is this: Life is a series of events. Every event is an opportunity for change. It's from the most painful events that you change the most. Changing your life requires choice to reframe much of what you have already learned in your brain. My books will help you and your children recondition your brain so that you are able to envision your true identity and make real change in your behavior and personal life.

Emotional Leadership Book

Emotional Leadership. Using emotionally intelligent behaviour to enjoy a life of EASE
By Dr. Mike & Karen Gosling (336 pages, US$27)

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In this book Mike and I combine all of the lessons we learned over the years together - We share the tips, tools, and techniques that we developed and apply in our own lives. Believe me - They work!

Emotional Leadership is about how emotional intelligence may be applied to everyday living to find the identity you want to empower personal and relationship change.

Abundance comes from awareness. If you want an abundant and balanced life, it is there for the taking ... but you need to become aware of your true self and focus on that ... and give up your self-image where your ego is in control. It's up to you to make it happen ...

Emotional Leadership shows you how to get there, building trust in your relationships one step at a time.

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Surviving Life Dramas

Surviving Life Dramas. How to stop whining and start living
By Karen Gosling (297 pages, US$22.50)

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This book is the result of many years of my own life experience; adjusting through change, grief, the unexpected death of my dad, a cross-cultural marriage of 30+ years, a blended family (three step-daughters, one of whom was adopted at birth and reconnected with her biological dad in 2007), interstate relocations, living overseas, children of my own, working full time as a community and medical social worker and then a counselor in private practice, my husband’s career changes, running our own business, financial distress, hypersensitivity, anxiety, and self-esteem issues.

It is also the outcome of many years counseling people from all walks of life and socio-economic statuses in Australia and Asia, dealing with relationship issues, personal stress, adult ADD, and trauma (critical events). Time and again I taught clients the same strategies that I use myself, to get back up and keep going. Some years ago I realized that it was better to teach people these techniques BEFORE the crisis happens so that they may be better equipped to survive their own life dramas without falling into victimhood.

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How To Handle Difficult Behavior

How To Handle Difficult Behavior - And It May Be Your Own!
By Karen Gosling ( 258 pages, US$22.50 - Kindle Books)

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Almost every family, every organisation, has them – people whose behavior impacts on individuals and can ruin relationships.

Maybe there are people in your home or workplace with behaviors that upset you but who you simply don’t have the confidence to challenge, even though you would like to!

Or maybe you will recognize yourself in this volume and start to realize how YOU drive other people crazy at work or at home. 

·         I have difficulty tackling others. What if they become aggressive with me? 

·         What if I become a target of bullying, which adds to my stress? 

·         I hate confrontation and I don't want to rock the boat! 

·         My peers aren't the problem – it's my boss! How do I deal with him? 

There are many behaviors that ruin relationships – obsessive, suspicious, and anxious behaviours. Speaking impulsively, spending foolishly, acting disrespectfully, being controlling, are examples of behaviours that are relationship wreckers. Then you have those who blame others, hold grudges, and cannot shift an ugly mood. And others who are weighed down with emotional wounds and want to forgive but feel the injustice so much, they cannot move on. 

Are you overwhelmed by people with difficult behavior? The fact is, the longer you put off dealing with difficult behaviors, the bigger the problem can become. A small irritation can turn into an adrenalin filled anxiety disorder crisis. In this book Karen Gosling gives you some tools and effective techniques to challenge difficult behaviors with confidence in any situation.

How To Handle Difficult Behavior brings power – power to behave differently once you have an increased awareness about WHY this behaviour occurs in the first place.  With awareness of why you or others behave the way that you do, comes the power of doing things differently.

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Enjoy A Life Of EASE

Enjoy A Life Of EASE
By Dr. Mike & Karen Gosling (114 pages, SGD$9.50)

This book is the teenage version of Emotional Leadership. Being a teenager is a tumultuous experience. This book aims to equip you with the skills you can use in the growing up process to manage your emotions:

- Makes easy reading for children from age 12 upwards
- Explore your emotional landscape
- Affirm your identity
- Strengthen your emotional knowledge

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Testimonials...            



 In working with Mike Gosling over the course of a year I was able to stop an annoying habit that I barely knew was occurring but which was turning people off me. Now I'm back in control of my emotions and the emotions of others, my salary went up, and I've taken on new assignments with relish.

- COO, Brand Maker, Singapore.

 Hi Mike - I'm sure your new 12-Part seminar series of DVDs Surviving Life Dramas is going to be an amazing pack that one can keep for life and for generations. Congratulations too on consolidating what you've offered to your clients and knowing this is a product of years of research and experience that will continue to stand out in the market. I am honoured to have been one of the many people who've received valuable counselling and guidance from you and Karen over the years and it's changed the way I've viewed life's challenges. Looking forward to many other Goslings goodies/seminars/ workshops etc in future. 

- Malti Lalwani, Singapore.

 

 WOW Mike! Every month I'm realizing how easy it is to change bad habits that I hadn't realized had crept into my way of managing. Thank You!! Everything you said worked like a charm. 

- Vice-President, Resource Company, Singapore.

 

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